In the ever-evolving landscape of dating trends, authenticity is becoming a key focus, with many moving away from pretenses. However, a recent incident has reignited discussions about the financial aspects of dating, particularly in India.
Journalist and social activist Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj recently shared screenshots of a WhatsApp conversation that sparked a heated debate on social media. The screenshots revealed a woman allegedly asking a man for Rs 10,000 to prepare for a coffee date, citing expenses such as waxing, manicures, pedicures, and new outfits.
The conversation, posted on the microblogging platform X (formerly Twitter), quickly went viral, amassing over 300,000 views. In the exchange, the woman also requests additional money, explaining that she overspent while shopping and needed financial assistance to tide her over until her next paycheck.
Dating in India ain't for beginners.... pic.twitter.com/vpFfaZAI7z
— Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj (@DeepikaBhardwaj) June 18, 2024
The man's response questioned the necessity of such expenditures, but the woman defended her requests by highlighting her financial situation.
This so called dating feels like a business deal.
— Naveen (@_naveenish) June 18, 2024
This incident has drawn widespread criticism online, with many users expressing disdain for the apparent commercialization of dating. Comments ranged from lamenting the readiness of some men to cover such expenses to labeling the situation as a "business deal."
It’s based on simple logic “Demand and Supply”. If you want demand for something then definitely someone is there for your needs.
— P'rashant kumar (@prasy088) June 18, 2024
People are having money but feels loneliness. 🤷🏻♂️
"Dating in India ain’t for beginners," Bhardwaj commented, encapsulating the frustration of many who feel that genuine connections are being overshadowed by financial expectations.
The debate underscores a broader issue within the Indian dating scene, where financial transactions can complicate relationships. As authenticity becomes more valued, this incident serves as a reminder of the complexities and challenges that modern daters face.
